Why Us?

Eight reasons why you should join Privy Date:
Go Ahead. Be Choosy.

With profiles curated by Privy Groupe - an inspired community of accomplished and like-minded individuals - you can be certain of the exceptional caliber of your matches. We’ll span both sides of the Pacific to find that remarkable individual for you.

Cultural Affinity

Our matching platform is designed with you in mind. Research shows that couples who marry within the same race or ethnicity are less likely to get divorced. When cultural contexts are understood, you can focus on the more important things.

Private. Discreet.

Your privacy is our top priority. Highly targeted matches are delivered directly to your inbox, ensuring in turn that only a few individuals can view your confidential profile. We can also screen out your exes, co-workers and immediate friends.

Real People. Real Connections.

We verify and authenticate every member, so no more dead-end or arbitrary matches. Our curated community of engaging, accomplished and passionate singles takes the fake profiles and time lost out of the equation.

Relationship Rocket Science

We’re dedicated to creating great matches, not hookups. Harmonizing the key indicators of relationship success, we collaborated with a team of PhDs to create a highly intuitive, proprietary algorithm called VALC © (Values, Attraction, Lifestyle & Culture).

Meet Through Friends. And Their Friends.

If you miss that human element when it comes to meeting people, don’t worry -- our Matchmaker platform puts a digital twist on traditional matchmaking, allowing your friends (and their friends) to personally connect you with real people they know.

Endorsements as Social Proof

Your matches will get a deeper sense of the person behind the profile with personal endorsements from your friends. Sometimes your friends can say it best, so let them. You will always have final approval of what appears in your endorsements.

Dating with Benefits

Privy Date lets users earn points and receive prizes for free. As a member, you can invite friends and get free matches. Or, if you’re more interested in Matchmaking, you can earn points for real gifts for every couple you set up.

How it works


Create Profile
Every user must fill out their profile in order to receive curated matches that fit their personality and preferences. For best results, fill at least 80% of the profile.
Earn Points
Earn points and redeem them in exchange for free matches. Not interested in dating? You can also earn points by playing Matchmaker.
Get Matches
As a premium member, you’ll receive curated matches delivered directly to your inbox every day at noon. You’ll have 24 hours to like each other.
Start Chatting
If you both like each other, let the conversation begin. Need an icebreaker? We got you covered. We prepped some Q&A’s to get you started.


Vouch for your single friends by writing an endorsement which gives their potential matches a better sense of the person behind the profile picture.
Expand your network of potential matches for your friends by connecting with other Matchmakers. You’ll then get access to the singles they’ve vouched for.
Play Matchmaker
Since you already have built up a network of eligible singles to pair up, it’s time to play Matchmaker. Start setting up intros and let the sparks fly.
Get Rewarded
Earn points for successful matches and redeem them for gifts. Best of all, you’ll still reap your real-life rewards as the honored guest at the wedding.


One to Five Curated Matches Every Day
Meet Through Friends
Play Matchmaker
Free with Points

Experience a modern approach to online dating. We verify and vet potential candidates and deliver them to your inbox. No searchable profiles ever. Access these perks for free when you earn points by inviting friends or completing your profile. You can also sign up for our premium membership.


Have fun by playing cupid. Connect those two friends you’ve always thought would go great together. You can also become friends with other Matchmakers to expand your pool of possible matches. Get real life “social rewards” for the matches you make and earn points that can be redeemed for gifts.


Executive search meets Matchmaking. Leveraging our vast Privy Groupe rolodex, we will assign you a dedicated dating concierge who will connect you with the most qualified candidates based on your criteria. You’ll get the VIP experience with memorable dates planned specifically for you.

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